What Are Antagonist Beliefs?

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What Are Antagonist Beliefs?

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"Antagonist Beliefs are formed when children are denied what they need or want and become angry"

As children all we know is; ‘I’ - “I need food, I need warmth, I need love, I need protection, and I need comfort”. It is all about us! No wonder then that if we come from a dysfunctional home or a home where there are many children and we only have our basic needs for food and warmth met our natural survival instinct to get what we want by any means intensifies.

Antagonist Beliefs are formed when as children we are denied what we need or want and we become angry. Not allowed to articulate this anger, we become resentful. Not allowed to express resentment we suppress it and indulge in antagonistic thinking and behaviour. We might not be allowed to hit our sister who stole the toy we were playing with, but no-one can stop us thinking mean thoughts about her.

Antagonist Beliefs are expressed through anger, irritation, frustration, impatience, intolerance, bitterness, resentment, jealousy, violence, cruelty, sarcasm, cynicism, hypocrisy, meanness, selfishness, Antagonist Beliefs keep us trapped acting out our anger.

However ‘nice’ we are,  sometimes it takes very little to trigger us into losing our temper, lashing out and hurting others or ourselves in the irrational behaviour storm that occurs when we ‘snap’ or ‘lose it’ , and mostly we are unaware what triggered this outburst.

As children all we know is; ‘I’ - “I need food, I need warmth, I need love, I need protection, and I need comfort”. It is all about us! No wonder then that if we come from a dysfunctional home or a home where there are many children and we only have our basic needs for food and warmth met our natural survival instinct to get what we want by any means intensifies.

Antagonist Beliefs are formed when as children we are denied what we need or want and we become angry. Not allowed to articulate this anger, we become resentful. Not allowed to express resentment we suppress it and indulge in antagonistic thinking and behaviour. We might not be allowed to hit our sister who stole the toy we were playing with, but no-one can stop us thinking mean thoughts about her.

Here’s an Example:
Base Belief:  “Nobody Loves Me” - Antagonist Belief – “I hate them all”
Base Belief: “I Never Get What I Want” - Antagonist Belief – “I Must Be Selfish”
Core Belief: “I Am Not Good Enough” - Antagonist Belief - “They’re Not Good Enough For Me”

We might not be allowed to run away from or fight back when a parent hits, screams or criticises us, but we can wish they would ‘drop dead’, or like me, wish our mother would get ‘lock-jaw’ so she would stop nagging us! Most of usact out’ these antagonist beliefs in some behaviour or other by being intolerant, stubborn, rude, manipulative or blaming. And some of us go further to become bullies, harridans and tyrants.

Antagonist Beliefs keep us trapped in primitive, survival behaviour, lashing out verbally or physically at others when we feel ourselves threatened in any way. The main problem with holding onto antagonism is that we can drive people away, alienate ourselves and end up doing and saying things we could regret for over.

Antagonist Beliefs keep us locked into our childish anger, selfishness, resentment and blame, hindering our emotional growth by disconnecting us from feelings of respect, tolerance, love, compassion and understanding, both for ourselves and for others.

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©Annie Moyes –January 2013- All rights reserved

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