Great Self -Esteem Comes From Self-Respect
How good our self-esteem is depends upon the input we received from our family of origin. If we grew up in a family where we were criticised, judged or belittled, we will probably have many ‘negative beliefs’ about ourselves and little self-respect.
Once hard-wired in our brain, we unconsciously use these negative beliefs as ‘yardsticks’ to compare ourselves to others. Comparing ourselves negatively to others slowly and systematically destroys our self-esteem and self-respect. We come to believe that ‘There is something wrong with us’ and that “We are just not good enough'.
Once our self-esteem starts eroding, with it goes loss of the self- respect that comes from liking ourselves, from knowing we are OK and from knowing that our parents, friends, colleagues like and accept us as we are.
But for those of us who came to believe 'we would never fit in’ because ‘we were too fat’, ‘too ugly’, ‘not good looking’, ‘not pretty enough' or ‘not smart enough’, we ended up believing we were ‘outcasts and misfits' and that ‘we would never belong’.
The negative beliefs that created low self-esteem and destroyed our self-respect became the blueprint for our adult life and still control and dominate our thoughts and feelings today.
Having no ‘self-respect’ can also lead us into a life of self-abuse and self-destruction, trying to numb our feelings with alcohol, drugs and food and self-harm or becoming involved in dangerous activities.
Having no ‘self-respect’ has serious consequences for our long-term happiness and can be the harbinger of a life-long depression and addictions. Also, if all we experience is viewed from a subconscious position of self-hatred or self-dislike, these feelings are often projected outward onto others and the world.
When we find it difficult to develop long lasting relationships or believe in ourselves enough to get the job we always wanted, it increases our feelings of isolation and loneliness and exclusion, thereby validating the negative beliefs we hold about ourselves, creating a vicious circle that reinforces our low self-esteem and reinforces our lack of self-respect.
Removing ‘negative beliefs’ about ourselves increases our self-esteem and builds our self-respect. We begin to like and accept ourselves as we are. We stop doing the harmful things that reinforced our beliefs. It helps us become more of who we were meant to be and less of whom we have led ourselves to believe we are.
Learning the ‘Emmote’ process and removing negative beliefs helps us to be the person we were born to be, giving us back our own identity and dignity so we never have to compare ourselves to others ever again. Can you believe it? No more feeling ‘not good enough’, ‘inadequate’ or ‘isolated’, no more sadness and self-abuse?
If you have poor self-esteem, or have lost respect for yourself, hop over to our Contacts Page to receive your FREE ONE-HOUR Skype or One-On-One session and send us a message. We will get back to you.
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Our ‘Emmote’ process works by eliminating the ‘negative thoughts and feelings’ that create a ‘negative belief’ at cellular level. It also severs the hardwired synapses between the thought and the feelings, eliminating them completely! Permanently!
If needed you will be able to recall the incident but not the feelings attached to it. It can no longer ‘trigger’ the feelings because they are no longer there, enabling you to move forward into your new, more positive life.
And because we teach you how to use the ‘Emmote’ process we empower you with the knowledge and tools to help yourself whenever anything negative come up for you.
Our ‘Emmote’ process is so powerfully life changing we 100% Guarantee it or we will give you your money back.
©Annie Moyes –January 2013- All rights reserved