What Are Core Beliefs?

What Are Core Beliefs?

What  are ‘Core Beliefs’ and how do they keep us trapped in a life we never wanted?  As the name implies, ‘Core Beliefs’ live at the very core of our being.  These are the beliefs that are imprinted in the first few years of life before we had the ability to reason. Negative Core Beliefs are the most insidious beliefs because they mould and shape our personality and our view of ourselves and our world. Negative Core Beliefs are the...

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Core Belief No. 5 – “Nobody Loves Me”

Core Belief No. 5 – “Nobody Loves Me”

In his best-selling book ‘Biology of Belief’ Neuroscientist Bruce Lipton writes; ‘The mere thinking of positive thoughts will not necessarily have any impact on our lives at all. In fact some people who ‘flunk’ positive thinking become more debilitated, because now they think they and their situation is hopeless. They believe they have exhausted all body/mind remedies.’ The reason why this doesn’t work for the vast majority...

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Core Belief No.4; I Hate Myself

Core Belief No.4; I Hate Myself

How Do You Know If You Have This Belief? As in Core Belief No. 3, grab a pen, paper but add a calculator and then go and look in a mirror, a full-length one is preferable.  Now look into your eyes and then look slowly down your body. You will not want to do this because you will have the ‘voice-over’ whispering in your ear and you might feel like crying or feel angry and want to stop. But be strong and persist. Do this for at least 3...

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Why is it that knowing someone loves you, still leaves you feeling empty and alone?

Why is it that knowing someone loves you, still leaves you feeling empty and alone?

Why is it that knowing someone loves you, still leaves you feeling empty and alone? I am a voracious reader and  my reading list is wide and varied; Psychology, Self-Help, Personal Development, Auto-biographies  are just some of the genres I read. But  ‘believe it or not’ I am also attracted to Crime novels;  Stephen King,  Jonathan & Kaye  Kellerman, Patricia Cornwall, Kathy Reichs, Ian Rankin, Lynda La Plante, James Patterson,...

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Are You Unhappy With The Way You Look?

Are You Unhappy With The Way You Look?

‘Young girls today are more afraid of getting fat, than of their parent’s dying or of nuclear war’ Are you unhappy with the way you look? What do you see when you look in the mirror? Do you hate yourself for not being the perfect image that the media insists you should be? Do you think there is nothing you can do to change your perception of yourself without drastic measures like cosmetic surgery, liposuction, strenuous exercise...

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A Child Who Lives With Criticism, Learns How To Condemn!

A Child Who Lives With Criticism, Learns How To Condemn!

“Children believe everything you say to them” Painful, hurtful and cutting criticisms become the ‘truth’ for children. If you don’t want your children to hate you when they grow up, here are a few examples from teenagers who were constantly criticised by their parents and who no longer have any contact with them.  Rob; “Both my parents give me the feeling that nothing I do is ever good enough. I am never enough. I...

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