Do Christian Louboutin Shoes Improve Our Self -Esteem?

Posted by on April 8, 2016 in Happiness, Self Esteem, Self-Image | Comments Off on Do Christian Louboutin Shoes Improve Our Self -Esteem?

Do Christian Louboutin Shoes Improve Our Self -Esteem?

“She’s a rich girl, she don’t try to hide it, diamonds on the soles of her shoes” sang Paul Simon in 1991.  Could this have been the song that influenced millions of women who absolutely, truly believe, ‘It’s Impossible to Live Without’ the latest Manolo, Jimmy Choo or Christian Louboutin shoes? If an expensive pair of shoes could cure low-self esteem, millions of women would be happy instead of depressed. Instead we now believe that ‘Image is Everything’ and like lambs to the slaughter, believe that wearing these...

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Are You Unhappy With The Way You Look?

Posted by on April 7, 2016 in Depression, Happiness, Rejected, Self Esteem, Self-Image | Comments Off on Are You Unhappy With The Way You Look?

Are You Unhappy With The Way You Look?

‘Young girls today are more afraid of getting fat, than of their parent’s dying or of nuclear war’ Are you unhappy with the way you look? What do you see when you look in the mirror? Do you hate yourself for not being the perfect image that the media insists you should be? Do you think there is nothing you can do to change your perception of yourself without drastic measures like cosmetic surgery, liposuction, strenuous exercise or dieting? The cosmetic surgery, fashion, weight-loss and cosmetic industries spend (and earn)...

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Are You Weighed Down By Debt?

Posted by on April 5, 2016 in Money | Comments Off on Are You Weighed Down By Debt?

Are You Weighed Down By Debt?

Are You Weighed Down By Debt?   Do you have a poor relationship with Money? Are you overburdened with debt, or believe you’ll never be wealthy?  Then perhaps these Negative Beliefs about Money might be the reason;   Money is hard to come by I don’t have/can’t make enough money I spend too much Money I don’t deserve to be wealthy/rich I struggle to make money Money can’t buy love or happiness I have to work hard for money People won’t like me if I am rich Money is a curse I’ll never have enough money I scrape by I...

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Our Brain-A Belief Making Machine

Posted by on November 27, 2015 in Depression, Feelings, Happiness, What Are Beliefs | Comments Off on Our Brain-A Belief Making Machine

Our Brain-A Belief Making Machine

 “I never cease being dumbfounded by the unbelievable things people believe. Leo Rosten” I have done much study and research on how our beliefs affect our happiness and how brain/mind  works over the past seventeen years. I spent the previous twenty years looking for ways to overcome my ‘issues’, when at my wit’s end I chanced on the  ‘Negative Beliefs’. Just hearing those two words was THE light-bulb moment I’d been looking for all those years. My sixth sense – or intuition –...

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Now You Can Stop Worrying About Money!

Posted by on March 22, 2015 in Happiness, Money, What Are Beliefs | Comments Off on Now You Can Stop Worrying About Money!

Now You Can Stop Worrying About Money!

Are you, like me, tired of hearing the word ‘Money’ in virtually every sentence, TV ad, magazine and movie? It’s “Money this” or “If I had the money” or “I seem to spend so much money”, or “Do you dream of having more money”? Or “You can’t live without the latest Wii, iPad, or Smart Phone”. Nearly every email I receive tells me how I can increase my wealth by ‘buying a course in SEO Marketing’ or attending ‘How to make Money’ seminars, asking me to pay a fortune for it, each one of them saying...

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What Is THE Meaning of Life?

Posted by on December 5, 2014 in Annie, Happiness, Meaning | Comments Off on What Is THE Meaning of Life?

What Is THE Meaning of Life?

I’ve been watching Stephen Hawkins’s –  Grand Design, and last night’s episode was, ‘The Meaning of Life’.  As I watched the programme I remembered the exact moment in 2002, aged 54, when I realised that there is NO MEANING to life.  I had been quite seriously ill for the previous year and was still in recovery after the break-up of a long-term relationship. I had lost all motivation; I was physically and emotionally exhausted and had come to a complete stop. I didn’t want to think about the future because all I...

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A Child Who Lives With Criticism, Learns How To Condemn!

Posted by on October 28, 2014 in Rejected, Self Esteem, Shame | Comments Off on A Child Who Lives With Criticism, Learns How To Condemn!

A Child Who Lives With Criticism, Learns How To Condemn!

“Children believe everything you say to them” Painful, hurtful and cutting criticisms become the ‘truth’ for children. If you don’t want your children to hate you when they grow up, here are a few examples from teenagers who were constantly criticised by their parents and who no longer have any contact with them.  Rob; “Both my parents give me the feeling that nothing I do is ever good enough. I am never enough. I don’t even have to be doing wrong either, I can be doing well and doing really good and there is just...

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You Just Broke Your Child’s Heart!!!

Posted by on October 25, 2014 in Anger, Depression, Guilt, Rejected, Self Esteem, Shame | 1 comment

You Just Broke Your Child’s Heart!!!

The Negative Things Adults Say To Children. Here are just some of the shocking negative things that adults say to children, I have collected hundreds of these put-downs, criticisms and  threats over the years I have been working with clients. Some are so shocking just the thought of having to hear them from a parents mouth is enough to make you shudder! One client’s mother told him every day from the time he was two years old “You are a F….. Little C..!  She said many other hurtful things as well, so you can imagine the impact that...

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Why Does Positive Thinking Fail?

Posted by on October 23, 2014 in Failure, What Are Beliefs | Comments Off on Why Does Positive Thinking Fail?

Why Does Positive Thinking Fail?

Why Does Positive Thinking Fail ? At some time or other most of us have tried positive thinking or affirmations to make us feel better, even if we don’t know that’s what we’re doing when we try to talk ourselves into doing something. Most of us have failed. Why?  Apparently, this is where the universal 94% x 6%  rule comes in.  Statistically only 6% of people who ‘do’ positive thinking or positive affirmations succeed. That means that 94% of us will fail at positive thinking. Why? Our ‘unconscious mind’...

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Is Bullying Hurting Your Child?

Posted by on October 22, 2014 in Fear, Self Esteem, Shame, What Are Beliefs | Comments Off on Is Bullying Hurting Your Child?

Is Bullying Hurting Your Child?

“Could a scar be like the rings of a tree, reopened with each emotional season?” Magenta Periwinkle, Cutting Class Let’s get this straight. YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE  FOR THE PROGRAMMES IN YOUR BRAIN!! Yes, that’s correct, why? Because our brain is the most incredibly complex piece of equipment on the planet and literally programmes itself based on what it sees, hears and experiences. Because of our brain’s incredible storage capacity and its desire to survive in the only way it knows how, from the time we were born, it...

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