What’s Your Game?
“Oh What a Tangled Web We Weave When First We Practice to Deceive”
So, how do we learn to deceive? As young children we unconsciously observe our family and the way they respond to us. We soon learn that each member of the family expects a different thing of us and tries to mould us into what they want us to be.
We soon learn what Mum, Dad, sister, brother etc., like and don’t like about us and we, adaptable as chameleons, reflexively change our persona to suit the expectations of each person so they will like us and give us what we need. Not only are we able to change our personality, we also learn to fear, dislike, love, and manipulate our environment and the people within it in order to survive.
As more introverted (passive) personalities – in order ‘to keep the peace’ – we come to believe we have to ‘go with flow, not rock the boat, take it as it comes, keep to ourselves, make light of it, take things seriously, be like them, blend in with the crowd, don’t make a fuss, do everything perfectly, do everything ourselves, don’t complain, wear the ‘in thing’, don’t make a fool of ourselves, don’t talk back, keep quiet, don’t provoke them and do as we are told’. We wear conservative clothes, speak quietly and keep our opinions to ourselves.
As more extroverted (forceful) personalities – in order to get the attention we crave – we believe ‘we must perform, we must be ‘out-there’, over-the-top, the leader of the pack, not take things too seriously, exhibitionists, crowd- pleasers, sales reps, party organisers, attention-seekers, ‘different’. We wear attention grabbing clothes to stand out from the crowd, willful, opinionated, self-centred, controlling, demanding, aggressive, and hate doing as we’re told.
All these behaviours are part of the personality we unconsciously invented for ourselves, based on the story of our life we had to create to fit in, and came to believe was the truth,
Based on what roles we were ‘expected’ to, and came to play, in our family and later in the world, throughout our life we become imposters, liars, actors, frauds, fakes and pretenders.
We learned to live our lives playing the game we, and others, invented for us in order to get what we believed we needed to survive.
As adults, most of us are consciously aware we are still playing the game, yet we still persist in keeping up the pretence. Some of us are so good at it that we truly believe that we are who we believe we are that few people will ever ‘see through us’, but most of us are so transparent that we can be seen coming a mile away!
Removing your negative beliefs helps to strip away the ‘invented you’. Can you imagine it? Actually being YOU! Not having to ‘play the game’ any more, being true to yourself and others and becoming self-determined and real?
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