Healing The Emotional Trauma of Childhood Sexual Abuse

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    “Before I started the Emmote Programme I was living in pure ‘survival mode’ and contemplating suicide so when a friend recommended that I try Emmote I felt I had nothing to lose. As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and an abusive marriage, I felt I could not

Do You Have Pre-Wedding Jitters?

What if you stop loving the person who you promise to love forever
The ‘Big Day’ is just weeks away and you’re panicking, you’re imagining the worst will happen, perhaps getting ‘cold feet’ and wondering if this ‘getting married’ business is worth all the trouble and expense. Before one of the most important days of our lives I think it might be expedient

This Is Your World, Shape It Yourself Or Someone Else Will

This is tour world - shape it or someone else will
  For over eight years we have been teaching, with remarkable success, a unique self-help programme we call (‘Emmote’). In 2003 we began working with clients suffering with low self-esteem, depression, addictions, eating disorders, anxiety and panic attacks, chronic phobias, long-term illness relationship and money issues. We are still amazed

We Can't Control Our Thoughts

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  I woke this morning and realised I had been dreaming about a book. It seemed that it was a book I had already in my computer but for some reason or another I had not read it before. I was clicking through the pages and saw the word BELIEF

Does The Lack Of Money Cause Relationship Breakdowns?

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    There’s an old saying that goes ‘When poverty comes in the door, love flies out the window’ and in many cases the breakdown of relationships is exacerbated by money worries.  However looking at the divorce rate between the rich and famous, it could be argued that having too

Overcoming Acute Shyness and a Childhood Stammer

I started working with the Emmote Programme after I saw the impact it had on some friends.  I have been using the process for almost two years now and have experienced some huge, positive changes in my life. One area where I have experienced a great change is in my

Sexual Abuse and Black Holes

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Whatever we choose to call the ‘black hole’ in our unconscious, the place where all our most painful emotional memories are buried, we can never really escape from them unless we die, and like skeletons in the closet, they’re always lurking - ready to pounce unless we are extremely vigilant.

What Makes You Angry – Part 2

The more anger you carry from your past
  Swallowed rage festers; it eats away at us silently and stealthily. We start becoming critical, picky, nagging, cynical and jaded. Resentment towards our parents is projected to the world at large and we become easily provoked, agitated and impatient. We can become passive-aggressive where smiling at people whilst mentally

What Makes You Angry? – Part 1

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  Why are people so angry, what makes us angry and why do some of us have little or no control over our anger? As children we get angry for many different reasons, here are some of them; We don’t get what we want when we want it We are