The Game of Life

How do we learn to play the ‘Game Of Life’? As young children we unconsciously observe our family and the way they respond to us. We soon learn that each member of the family expects a different thing of us and tries to mould us into what they want us to be. We soon learn what Mum, Dad, sister, brother etc., like and don’t like about us and we, as adaptable as chameleons, reflexively change our persona to suit the expectations of each person so they will like us and give us what we need.   Not only are we able to change our personality, we also learn to fear, dislike, love, and manipulate our environment and the people within it in order to survive.

As  more introverted (passive) personalities - in order ‘to keep the peace’ - we come to believe we have to go with flow, not rock the boat, take it as it comes, keep to ourselves, make light of it, take things seriously, be like them, blend in with the crowd, don’t make a fuss, do everything perfectly, do everything ourselves, don’t complain, wear the ‘in thing’, don’t make a fool of ourselves, don’t talk back, keep quiet, don’t provoke them and do as we are told.

As more extroverted (forceful) personalities - in order to get the attention we crave - we believe we must perform,  we must be ‘out-there’, over-the-top, leader of the pack, not take things too seriously, exhibitionists, crowd- pleasers, sales reps, party organisers, attention-seekers, ‘different’, wear attention grabbing clothes, leaders, stand out from the crowd, wilful, opinionated, self-centred, controlling, demanding, aggressive, and hate doing as we’re told.

All these behaviours are part of the personality we unconsciously invented for ourselves based on the story of our life we imagined, and then believed to be true, and what roles we were ‘expected’ to, and came to play, in our family and later in the world. Throughout our life we became imposters, actors, frauds, fakes and pretenders.

We learned to live our lives playing the roles we, and others, invented for us to get what we believed we needed to survive. As adults most of us know we are doing this yet still persist in keeping up the pretence.  Some of us are so good at it that we truly believe that we are who we believe we are and few people will ever ‘see through us’, but most of us are so transparent that we can be seen coming a mile away!

Removing your negative beliefs helps to strip away the ‘invented you’. Can you imagine it?  Actually being YOU! Not having to ‘play the game’ any more, being true to yourself and others and becoming self-determined and real?  If you would like to know more about how we unconsciously learn to play games just buy a copy of our e-book; ‘Wealth- Beyond Belief’ for just $21.50- that contains everything you need to know about ‘Emmote’ – which you can download through our store – and start becoming your ‘real self’ RIGHT NOW!

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